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And here’s where we deliver the death blow

This is the 48th Blog Off topic we’ve introduced and it’s also the last. Painful though it may be, it’s time to just admit that this bloggery phenomenon has seen its day in the sun and at this point, it’s in the rear view mirror. Gerard and I have been carrying this thing and as [...]

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What makes a good story – storytelling

Posted by gerard | Posted in Lifestyle | Posted on 04-02-2011

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Almost everyone has someone in their family who can tell a good story; someone who can turn the most boring event into the most exciting yarn. Is this the definition of storytelling? Does a true story need to be factually correct? Can a fictional story be true?

How do you define storytelling?

In this week’s #letsblogoff, let’s examine the art and science of storytelling and why we human beings seem to need a good story like we need food, water and air. Or take the discussion in your own direction. But above all, tell us a good story. Or a bad one even.

Then publish on your blog anytime on Tuesday, February 15th and send a tweet to @letsblogoff or fill out the form here so we can pick it up and add you to the list of participating bloggers. Be sure to visit all the other bloggers to see how they tackled the theme. Retweets and comments are always appreciated.

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Do social sites like Facebook connect the world or isolate people?

Posted by paul | Posted in Lifestyle | Posted on 11-09-2010

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Editor’s note: Please keep in mind that the next Blog Off will take place on Tuesday the 21st of September. Please hold off on making your Blog Off posts go live until some time after midnight on the 21st. It’s on the day of the blog off itself that we’ll be tweeting everybody’s posts and cross-promoting all of the participating blogs. Remember, anticipation is half the fun!

Last month, a Toronto undergraduate psychology student published the results of her study of Facebook users in an obscure academic journal, Cyberpsychology, Behavior and Social Networking. Psych major Soraya Mehdizadeh studied the online habits of 100 Facebook users who ranged in age from 18 to 25 and her paper, Self-Presentation 2.0: Narcissism and Self-Esteem on Facebook, found that

… analyses revealed that individuals higher in narcissism and lower in self-esteem were related to greater online activity as well as some self-promotional content.

Despite the insignificant and non-representative sample of her study, there are after all 500 million Facebook users worldwide, media outlets and talking heads pounced on her findings and trumpeted them as the revelation of a new cosmic truth.

The social networking site is a haven for narcissistic people because they can establish a large number of hollow ‘friendships’ without having to establish a real relationship, a study found.

Or so said the British newspaper, The Telegraph. The Daily Mail took the Telegraph’s opinion and ran with it:

Using Facebook is the online equivalent of staring at yourself in the mirror, according to a study.
Those who spent more time updating their profile on the social networking site were more likely to be narcissists, said researchers.

Facebook provides an ideal setting for narcissists to monitor their appearance and how many ‘friends’ they have, the study said, as it allows them to thrive on ‘shallow’ relationships while avoiding genuine warmth and empathy.

On the North American side of the Atlantic, CBS News lead with the following:

How many times have you logged onto Facebook only to find that (fill in the name here) has updated their page for the upteenth time with yet another entirely forgettable, wonder of me moment?

It would be easy to assume from the anecdotal evidence that a legion of insufferable narcissists has found the perfect sounding board. But maybe it’s not just your impression.

In the study author’s home town, the Toronto Star opined:

Compelled to tell your 500 Facebook chums every time you can’t find your sunglasses? Want the world to know you look like Robert Pattison? Post new Photoshopped pictures every day?

You, my friend, are narcissistic and insecure.

If you listen to the chorus of talking heads, online activity is ruining human interaction and social sites are the province of the self-aggrandizing and the desperate. For the last month, that study’s statistically meaningless findings have been torqued and spun in a mass media frenzy of hand wringing and sweeping generalization. News outlets from Prague to Peoria climbed on board and at this stage of the game, narcissism and Facebook have become more or less synonymous.

We thought this study and the pundits’ free-for-all that followed was a prime topic for a blog off. After all, everybody else seems to have weighed in so why not the rest of us? Does social media involvement kill human interaction? Are social sites like Facebook and Twitter drawing people closer together or are they further isolating everybody? To put it bluntly, is the world a better place with Facebook in it?

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Hollie Holcombe@GreenRascalGreen Rascal Design
Steve Mouzon@stevemouzonOriginal Green
Cheryl Kees Clendenon@InDetailSaysDetails and Design
Saxon Henry@saxonhenryRoaming by Design
Jane Frederick@JaneFredArchLow Country Architect
Denese Bottrell@Denese_BottrellThoughtful Content
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Where’s your slice of heaven?

Posted by paul | Posted in Lifestyle | Posted on 29-08-2010

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Everybody it seems, has a place in mind when the topic of get aways comes up. Where’s your slice of heaven?

After the last Blog Off, we thought it might be fun to lighten up the mood a bit by talking about perfect places. So where’s your heaven? What’s the best and most interesting place you’ve ever been? What’s the place that fills your day dreams, even if it’s somewhere you’ve never been?

What do you look for in a location? Do you go to a secluded beach and read? Do you head for the mountains and ride the trails? Do you take in the sights and sounds of a world capital? Or is it in your very own back yard? What’s the appeal of your perfect place and why aren’t you there now? Or are you? Join in with us and Blog Off!

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Paul Anater@paul_anaterKitchen and Residential Design
Rufus Dogg@dogwalkblogDogWalkBlog
Becky Shankle@ecomodEco-Modernism
Bob Borson@bobborsonLife of an Architect
Bonnie Harris@waxgirl333Wax Marketing
Tamara Dalton@tammyjdaltonTamara Dalton Design Studios
Sean Lintow, Sr.@SLSconstructionSLS-Construction.com
Richard Holschuh@concretedetailConcrete Detail
Tim Bogan@TimBoganWindbag International
Hollie Holcombe@GreenRascalGreen Rascal Design
Cindy FrewenWuellner@UrbanverseUrbanverse's Posterous
Steve Mouzon@stevemouzonthe Original Green
Kevin Lee Allen@klad2688KLAD Design
Jody Brown@INFILLncCoffee with an Architect
Madame Sunday@ModernSauceModern Sauce
Saxon Henry@RoamingByDesignRoaming By Design
Barbara Segal@beachhousefindsBeach House Finds
Jane Frederick@JaneFredArchLow Country Architect
Carrie Leber@bloomaciousCarrie Leber PR Blog
Brian Meeks @ExtremelyAvgExtremely Average
Andrea Wolper@AndreaWolperSpin the Wheel
Sue Murphy@suemurphydesignLife as a House
Denese Bottrell@Denese_BottrellThoughtful Content

Are today’s college graduates ready for the working world?

Posted by paul | Posted in Lifestyle | Posted on 21-08-2010

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The question’s pretty straightforward for this round of Blog Off. Are college graduates today really ready for the working world?

According to an article in the Chicago Tribune last week, the average cost of a year at a private college now stands at $50,000 and it’s $15,000 at a public college. College graduates today enter the real world with $23,200 in debt on average. That’s a pretty staggering figure and we’re curious to hear what you think comes with all that debt?

As with all of these Blog Off topics, how you interpret this question is up to you –there are no right answers or right ways to participate. Have your post be a reminiscence of your own college days. Use you post to encourage the young people in your life or young people in general. Or use it as a way to vent your frustrations with these damn kids today. It’s entirely up to you.

Be sure to let everybody know you’re participating and have fun!

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Bob Borson@bobborsonlifeofanarchitect.com
Bonnie Harris@waxgirl333Wax Marketing
Tim Elmore@TimElmoregrowingleaders.com
Nick Lovelady@cupboardscupboardsonline.com
Tamara Dalton@tammyjdaltontamaradalton.net
Sean Lintow, Sr.@SLSconstructionsls-construction.com
Amy Good@SplintergirlAmy's Blog
Richard Holschuh@concretedetailConcrete Detail
Tim Bogan@TimBoganWindbag International
Hollie Holcombe@GreenRascalRascal Design
Cindy FrewenWuellner@UrbanverseUrbanverse
Steve Mouzon@stevemouzonOriginal Green
Cheryl Kees Clendenonkitchendetailsanddesign.com

Living a small life

Posted by paul | Posted in Design, Lifestyle | Posted on 13-08-2010

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The popular press is filled with headlines and feature stories proclaiming an end to living large. It’s an indirect way to say that Americans and other westerners are moving away from an era of conspicuous consumption. Small is the new big, or so we’re told.